Is he just messing with me?

[MrsB1234]

I found out my husband was having an affair about 2 months ago. Since then it has been hell. I tried following some of the advise on here, but he was so infatuated with this other woman that none of it made any difference. He has recently moved out. I miss him so much, but at least i am feeling more in control now. I feel stronger and less like dying.
He has started to contact me now. he says he misses me and realises he still loves me, hasn't suggested he is ready to leave this new woman. I feel so torn, i want him back so much but Im worried im just going to get hurt again. I cant go back to those dark days, it has taken me so long to get over them. I just dont know what to do.

[dbmod]

Hi Mrs B-
I posted to you on newcomers. Folks need more information in order to help you brainstorm solutions.

And when you say you are following advice, what do you mean you are doing and saying or you have stopped doing or saying?

[dbmod]

Also--its much more helpful if you stick to one thread. Newcomers is probably most appropriate for you right now.