My WAH accepted my fathers invitation to come to his house for Christmas Eve -- then he expressed he wanted to come by our "my" house for Christmas Day. I dont know how I feel about this he is telling everyone our marriage is over and we are getting a divorce but then he wants to spend the holidays with my family - if we get divorced he wont be spending holidays with us I think I am just making it easier for him to say WOW being o seperated/divorced is easy... but then I cant imagine the holidays without him BTW he went out again tonight and spent 100.00 I think there has to be someone else...