why do some posts never get a reply ?

[cat4554]

I posted yesterday hoping to get answers and no one has said anything. I had 39 views.
I don't understand. WHY ?

[irishblessings]

Cat,

I think sometimes people just aren't ready to reply - I know that often times I read something and type a reply and then don't send it.

If people are on this board - it is because they are going through a very painful time in their life. Sometimes we just don't know what to say.

Please don't get discouraged - continue to post and read. It helps -

IB

[TAMF]

cat -

I hardly ever post...but I try to read everyday. Lot's of times I don't respond to someone's post because I don't know what to say - or I don't feel I am in a place to respond correctly (I feel I don't do a very good job of detaching, so I can't be telling others to do it when I don't :-). also, I have been on here since July (not sure when you started posting) but I have noticed that the number of new people on the site has gotten sooo big, I think it can be overwhelming for the vetrans to keep up with everyone's posts.

are you on the alt site? It helps me to be able to talk to one or two directly - and you can't do that on this site. Let me know if you r interested and I will help you get on.

[cat4554]

cat -

are you on the alt site? It helps me to be able to talk to one or two directly - and you can't do that on this site. Let me know if you r interested and I will help you get on.

What Alt site ? Please, help me with that. Thank you for answering, you & IrishBlessings.

This whole thing with my H is very frustrating.

[TAMF]

not to leave you in the dark, but I just realized that I am not allowed to talk about this subject or I could get banned. I am sorry - very strict rules, but I understand why.

I will try to keep up with your post on this site as much as possible!

Chin up - have faith - stay strong. Talk to you soon!