Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Wh=ent out on two dates with W and they went well. After the second date I sensed the W pulling back abit from the R.
Things were going great and maybe she wasn't ready for it. IDK. Anyway I decided to leave the sitch alone for awhile. I decided not to ask her out again. I wanted to wait for her to feel comfortable again.
Patience paid off. W texted me yesterday to meet for lunch today. Last post from previous thread
Things are going well so I need to reassure her that a happy R is achieveable between us. No R talk, just actions and rebuilding trust right now. I know it will take time to really feel comfortable with eachother.
I'm remaining positive. gr8
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
Just got back from the lunch date. Again things went well , convo flowed nicely. Most of the convo was about R talk. Not our R but her brothers and SIL's R and how they have been treating her.
I fought the urge to try to "fix" the situation between them and I just listened to her vent. Offered no solution to the problem just validated her feelings.
She asked me if I had to get back to the office and I said I did. I sensed she was looking to spend more time with me but I couldn't do it today.
All in all I think today was another step(baby one) in the right direction.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
