Pursuer/Distancer Advice

[Walking]

Hi everyone

Some time ago (could have been years ago) I read a really insightful post, I think by Snodderly, on the Persuer/Distancer dynamic.

I thought I'd seen it in the resources, but I can't find it now.

Does anyone remember the thread and/or have the link?

I'd be so grateful if someone could point it out, I've got a friend in desperate need of understanding the issue and that was the best analysis of it I've ever read.

Cheers, Virginia

[Mila]

Hi walking - I found something...is that it?

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1966228

[Cadet]

This is the link that I post on all the newbies thread.


NEW - Pursuit and Distance
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=714209

[Walking]

Many thanks Mila and Cadet. You both rock.

Cheers, V

[hope for zen]

This is a great article on how the distancer tries to keep the pursuer in the game:

http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate..._hoovering.html