I'm fine. I'm one of the few who do not have internet at home. I appreciate the response. Sorry for the late reply. She did come over for thanksgiving. It went fine. No relationship talk, although that has become normal over time. I didn't get a chance to do anything special (cards, movies, etc) because I was cooking, but we did talk and she did have fun with the kids.
It was wonderful to have her there and painful to have her leave. Of course, I didn't share this. I wrote her a note thanking her for coming and letting her know she is welcome any time. I guess this should be it for a while?
Thanks. Any thoughts out there on a next step, or do I go back to limited contact? At some point I need to try again right? Or, is the ball in her court forever. I don't believe she is entertaining the idea of coming back at all right now, but IF she ever does, I imagine it would be difficult for her to initiate a reunion process considering all of the things she has done. Maybe all I do is what I have done: be kind; make it known, without a relationship talk, that I desire her return. Ideas?
