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Very well spoken Grit. I've admired your courage and foresight ever since I joined this Board. Thought perhaps we had lost you there for awhile, not seeing you on the Boards.

As for your metamorphosis, Congrats. I see it as reaching not a point of no return, but a point of returning down a different path.

Peace Out ( as my kids say )


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011
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Thanks Pun!

I am trying to find time to post here but have been busy.

I will be making an effort to get back here.

It is important to me.


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Just want to thank you for following my sitch Grit.
You've helped me a great deal.
Pickle.


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How's it going Grit?

Long time buddy...I see you're doing well.

Just passing through!!


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Hey MC what's up buddy?

How are things in your sitch?


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Well W broke the silence.

Almost 2 months since I drew the line. No contact.

The excuse?

Some mail she got for me that was important...not so important.

Anyway...

Yada Yada yada.

Stuff she has of mine. I said sell it and live off the $

W: How is dog?

TG: Fine.

W: Tell him Mommy says Hi

TG: Ok

W: Ok well I have to go to work sorry for the short convo. Call if you want to talk.

TG: W I already told you I won't be calling you. Did you undertand the last email I sent?

W: Yes

TG: Anything unlclear about where I stand? Ball is in your court. Do yo understand?

W: Yes. I am going on a sabbatical.

TG: A what?

W: I am going to South America for a few days to think about things. Out of the country.

TG: Well be careful down there.

TG over and out....


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(((Truegritter))) a hard decision to live with. I hope it in the end serves you well.
Blessings True from me to you.


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Grit,

Good to see you back...Hope you stick around for a bit.

You know what that was, you handled it well.

How's the move coming along?

You know where I am if you need anything...



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
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Grit,

I echo what Cat said.

Your insights are wise and appreciated. smile

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True,

The last conversation my H & I had was at the L's office, where he said "That's not legal" and I said "Yes it is legal". Silence before and after. Based on that, you and your wife are gabby.

As Cat said, you know what that was. I agree you handled it well. Wonder how cold that was tipping her toe in the water?

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