Well, I so totally need to find my DB book, because since my husband left, I have been doing everything to push him farther and farther away. You name it I have done it!! Up to today, I was so angry and bitter with him, that I said and did anything to hurt him, obviously closing the casket on our marriage. My husband has made it perfectly clear that he does not want our marriage to continue -- he is not coming back (this time -- this is actually my second time here. My H cheated and left 7 years ago and we reconciled after about 8 months -- but I'm back because it's happened again!!) Please tell me that sometimes cheaters can change because I want my marriage back -- but with someone who loves only me!!
M 41 H 41 D16 S 15 D 12 D 10 S 9 M 17 yrs OW Jan. 03 - May 04 S Dec. 03 - May 04 R May 04 - Apr 10 OW Apr 10 S Aug.10 ** H wants LS and D **