Do you feel bullied? Be honest!

[Kalni]

BTW, good to hear your news Gno!! Hugs

[LanceSijan]

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Divorce Busting strategies and techniques to help them improve their relationships and save their marriages.


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Well that explains it!

[lostandconfused6]

No, i like your style. I think when we are going through something like this we are in our own "fog" and need someone to help us out of it!

[MrBond]

Gnosis,

You should post your story in Success Stories.

[Frank V]

I think some casual readers may view a 2 x 4 as bullying.

I have yet to read anyone looking for advice respond in any way that they appeared bullied, and most celebrated and welcomed in the input...

I know some posters are hard headed, I am among them... And I have seen some heated debates here on the effectiveness of a variety of approaches, but I don't recall reading any threads that were bullying actual visitors... just some heated debate amongst veterans and to my mind that's healthy...

Some websites even have a private forum dedicated to more heated disputes...

[robx]

Actually Lance it doesn't explain "it", see below:

Board Rules
This messageboard community is designed to support, encourage, and educate people about
Divorce Busting strategies and techniques to help them improve their relationships and save their marriages.


You may not always agree with our decisions to delete posts or to ban some members.
We reserve our right to do so when we feel necessary, with or without explanation.

We reserve the right to delete, edit, move or
close any post or thread for any reason at our sole discretion.

Well that explains it!

Some of coach's posts were removed without any indication as to why they were removed. He is always clear, well spoken, rarely if ever heavy handed and very much respected on these forums along with his wife Greek (you commoners may refer to her as the "Queen"), and they are probably the only example of a married couple that both contribute extensively these forums.

The DB forums couldn't ask for a better example of a success story.

[LanceSijan]

Rob,

I believe we are writing the same thing.

The posts were removed without explanation.
As advertised in your red highlight.

They are under no obligation to us whatsoever.

They IMHO feel that they can treat their customers or potential customers in any mannner that they deem fit
and that those customers will continue to flock to them.

What do you think?

[Frank V]

The problem Lance is that if you start discussing the policies in any way other than positively you run the risk of your post getting deleted.

This is the catch - 22 that made free speech so important...

I am starting to hear The Sound of Silence running in my head so lets just leave it at that.

Either free speech is respected, or its not... And these policies certainly don't make an argument in favor of the importance of free speech...

this post won't likely last long either...

[Kimmie Lee]

The Sound of Silence is such a great one with beautiful lyrics:

"The sign said the words of the prophets are written on the subway walls, and tenement halls...."

And an apt analogy. I need to find a subway wall or a tenement hall....

[Kimmie Lee]

...."People writing songs that voices never shared.....AND NO ONE DARED.....

.....disturb the sounds.....of silence."