In the aftermath of my wifes EA/PA dealing with the I love you not in Love with you. The "affair break up " was about a month ago. I responded in all the wrong ways first few weeks. She became self protective, angry, resentful. The roller coaster. I have done a few 180's avoiding R talk as much as possible. I have started to notice a subtle change in her behavior. I am being more pleasant so she is. She is begining to open up a little. She actually will allow a friendly touch vs pulling away like i am the plague.We are holding normal conversations avoiding R talk. But now what? With schedules we really have a week of minimal contact, 4 days of none do I go dark on those days? Do those subtle changes mean anything? Thanks to any and all who respond.
H 37 WW 37 M 15 5 Children Bomb 9-27-10 W EA/Pa she filed 12-18-10
Just a few tips, but you will get more. One, stick to just one thread to explain your situation. If you need to add info to your own post, just reply. You will get more responses that way.
The people on this board are great and you will find a lot of support. I don't make it over here much since I moved over to MLC, but I pop in once in a while.
Sounds like you are in crisis mode and need to take some emergency measures to get stablized. Can you give a bit more info on what is going on?
In the middle of divorce remedy crisis mode was a few weeks ago emotions are starting to stabilize i didn't mean to multiple post apparently it posted when it didn't seem to.
H 37 WW 37 M 15 5 Children Bomb 9-27-10 W EA/Pa she filed 12-18-10
