Do her subtle changes mean anything?

[blue2010]

In the aftermath of my wifes EA/PA dealing with the I love you not in Love with you. The "affair break up " was about a month ago. I responded in all the wrong ways first few weeks. She became self protective, angry, resentful. The roller coaster. I have done a few 180's avoiding R talk as much as possible. I have started to notice a subtle change in her behavior. I am being more pleasant so she is. She is begining to open up a little. She actually will allow a friendly touch vs pulling away like i am the plague.We are holding normal conversations avoiding R talk. But now what? With schedules we are about to have almost a week of minimal contact, 4 days apart do I go dark on those days? When she calls the kids just let her talk to the kisd and i don't talk? Do those subtle changes mean anything? Had some trouble posting hope this doesn't create duplicate.