My WAW moved out about 6 months ago, and she calls me up and wants to go to lunch. So, I go to lunch and she says can I come over about 4-5pm to visit? I say okay...and one thing leads to another...and we are having intimate fun with no clothes on. The WAW says "now this doesn't mean anything it is just both of us getting some stress relief"... I cannot figure out what goes on within the female mind... I will say that if she is going to have sex I prefer that it be with me her husband rather that some outside unknown person... I have been using both the DB and DR techniques for 5 months now... I have checked up on our sitch and she is not having an affair... My question is how many folks on here have sex with their WAS/WAW, and does this lead to you getting back together?? Any feedback is appreciated...the ladies input would be great.
I would take her for her word she might have tagged you.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
Have you discussed with your attorney whether or not there are any LEGAL ramnifications in your jurisdiction for being intimate once again with your wife?
Also, beware of other crazy things like protection orders or even worse rape acusations. I know I am completely cynical, but all this can and does happen.
Take her at her word, it doesn't mean anything. If you are okay with that, carry on. Like Starsky said, use protection. As much as you think there is not another person, most of us were just as sure.
Proceed with caution. There are different points of view on the subject. Some say it helps the two of you to hold on to the physical bond which, in turn, helps the emotional bond to grow. Others say it is just her asserting her control over you. I am no pro, but I tend to agree with the latter. Us guys are simple and sex, especially the wild monkey sex my W was newly interested in the few times we did it. It was great, if you can picture your W someone you pick up in a bar and take her home for the night and she lets you do things you had only dreamed of up until that point. In my case, the woman I woke up with was not the same one who I fell asleep with. She wasn't my W before or after.
I really miss the sex, but I miss it with my W and I don't think that's what we usually get in this sitch.
