Trust me. Every decision I've made that has burned me has been made when I've been emotionally exhausted. Eventually you'll find an even keel, almost a peace, and then you'll be better prepared to make the tough decisions.
Well, last night she and I talked for a little bit after putting the knucklehead (son) to bed.
She wants to go out on a date tonight.
She also said the other night when I slept in my bed, she thought I was reconsidering about working it out and didnt like how that made her feel.
She did NOT go to TKD last night, she had a crown crack and had to go see the dentist and that didnt allow her enough time to get back and then go to TKD she said.. I just agreed with her.
so no TKD since I laid down the NC.. and she said last night she will respect my boundry and will work this out. I told her I would leave if she cant be loyal and faithful and that is simply a fact. She said she will be.
So that is about it for now. Feel better after a good nights rest. Mind gets cluttered. She wants to move back into bedroom this week..
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10
she thought I was reconsidering about working it out and didnt like how that made her feel.
This is good for now...good to keep this going for a bit, until you are both sure you are both truly working on things and committed. Don't lose this yet.
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
She did NOT go to TKD last night, she had a crown crack and had to go see the dentist and that didnt allow her enough time to get back and then go to TKD she said..
Am I the only one here who doesn't fully trust this?