Put the energy that you had been applying to "making it work" into stuff that's fun for you. Focus on yourself, not him. The more you give to yourself, the better you'll feel. Give yourself a well deserved break from your sitch.
That's the plan. He can go live his life, I'm ready to live mine again.
Me 30 H 29 DC 9, 7, 2 M 4 years, T 6 years ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10 He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too Physically separating end of September
As he left after dropping our daughter off: (I've been asking him to take his cat for a week now... I don't need another thing to worry about because of his choices) 'i'll ask her about the cat soon.. I'll just tell her you're being a real bitch about it! Hahaha!'
I just said 'yeah' and walked away.
That's the type of crap I'm tired of hearing. That and all the fun stuff she did while with them. I don't care. I don't give rundowns on her day when you aret around, I don't need to hear them from you either. Just leave me alone!!'
Me 30 H 29 DC 9, 7, 2 M 4 years, T 6 years ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10 He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too Physically separating end of September
