Hi Dienne. You've moved! Try not to dwell on OW too much, Dienne, as your situation has many positives. My W said she never loved OM, but that didn't stop her from having an A. If she had, I think things would have been more difficult in my situation...same as with yours...
Quote: He says is committed to me and the children, although the word that keeps coming up is 'his responsibility'. He doesn't want to move all his things back here yet, as he wants to be more sure. Sounds like a little lack of commitment and a whole lot of unsurity to me. Be patient and watch the small steps I guess.
What's important is that your H is at home, working on things with his family. He's gun-shy because of how your R has been in the past, and he wants to make sure things are going in the right direction...hence the reason he's likely not moved his stuff back in. Give him some time and continue to DB, showing him your changes.
It is great that he's acknowledged the fact that he can "love" you again. This is significant. I don't think my W feels this way, but she tries nonetheless. It's just something that will take time. For you, I pray it won't take too much time.
In any case, I'm sorry I didn't come check in on you sooner. Just try and take heart that he's home and with you and the children. My gut tells me that, in time, you guys will be just fine.
It's good to hear from you - I'll be stopping by at your place soon to catch up on what's been happening with you.
I've been really very busy with work, my son and H lately, so haven't really been able to log in and read up what's been happening here. Things have been progressing - I've had an 'ILY' from H as I was walking up the stairs the other evening. I was so shocked, I had to ask him to repeat it, as I wasn't sure what he had said. He said it again and I had to think about it before saying ILY aswell.
Looking forward to the imminent arrival of our new baby and taking a well deserved break from work.
