Divorce Process has started

[bigdgsr]

For some reason my old thread was deleted. Just wanted to give an update:

W and my MIL have been moved out of the house for over 2 months. I haven't talked to the wife in over 5 weeks. She's sent some texts asking about bills and left some voicemails about mail. Our divorce agreement is just about finalized and the divorce should be final 11/8. The W is so angry about me having an attorney and when I last talked to her, she expressed a lot of built up anger.

About 2 weeks I sent the W an e-mail stating that trust was really important to me and that I wanted her to trust me. I sent her my e-mail passwords and told her that I have nothing to hide and that if she wanted to talk she would need to take the divorce off the table. Never got a response.

I actually wasn't upset about that. I've been so busy with work, softball, and fixing the house. I've been out with friends as much as I can and I'm feeling so much better about the situation. Thinking back 6 months I never thought I would be able to get through this situation. This site has helped me so much.