I think I screwed up today. I've been gathering intel on my wife for a while now and something cropped up today that threw me for a loop. W map quested an address that turns out to be a guy she told me about (no PA) but claimed she no longer interacted with at our gym. Obviously this is moving towards a PA. What makes the whole thing even more painful is the last two weeks have been good and i though we had made some progress; clearly i was mistaken. Unfortunately I was unable to control my emotions and it showed all over my face. I recovered enough to retain my composure and we ended up talking about it later in the evening in more general terms about trust and her giving me something to work with. She did question me why all of a sudden my mood did a 180 so she may be suspicious that I'm scrutinizing her activity.
If you read my sitch you'll know that if she f$cks this guy it will be the second one in the past three months. She also knows my boundary is clear, I will not live in an open marriage. Do I confront on this one piece of information or do I gather something more concrete?
Me-43 W-41 S-3 M- almost 7 W ONS affair - 8/9/10, confronted 8/30/10 Separation - Pending My sitch
