This is my first post in newcomers:

Its been 10 yrs since I was here. Got remarried. Its been a tough go but things finally settled down and for 3 years now we have been living together with my 2 sons, family get togethers with her son and his girlfriend and child, my step dad, vacations, cruises holidays!!
Last Friday she walked and is moving her stuff out, is already with another guy she just met Friday(I have verified this) and got an apartment today. Its just over she says! Wasn't happy living at OUR house.
This all started Last Thurs when she stayed up all night on face book drinking (and no he is not from facebook) I mean till 11:30 the next morning. I called her on it and left around 3pm to clear my head. While she was passed out. She left and that was it.

It still hurts a second time. I was mad now I am kinda in shock that it went down soo fast. I know I'll be ok after she leaves with all her stuff)this weekend) but right now its tough. Thanks for listening...

This all stsrted labor day weekend and according to her it was over. 4 weeks later we have a Co meeting tomorrow because she is confused and scared, does not want to lose me foever but may want out of marraige at same time. Says she dooes not deserve me. She has told me she did sleep with him and likes him, but I know he is just a slime that she hooked on to. Also not in love with him.