Hi Upside, Good news is always welcome. I have followed your thread but dont' always post much.
Quote - He did really seem to be stuck at the end. Do you think the divorce helped to move him out of withdrawal?
Can you give me a little info on what Cadet posted here. My H has seemed deeper in the tunnel for the past 5 months. Started D proceeding around that time even though he said before he didn't want that. He remains with OW. Got engaged to her, yet remains unhappy, drinking alot, some depression and has withdrawn from the kids more and more and now has no contact at all with them. We have heard nothing during his withdrawal.
I wondered if you saw this. The D will prob be final in Jan. I dont wnat it, but I have no choice but to look after myself and the kids.