Its been 10 yrs since I was here. Got remarried. Its been a tough go but things finally settled down and for 3 years now we have been living together with my 2 sons, family get togethers with her son and his girlfriend and child, my step dad, vacations, cruises holidays!! Last Friday she walked and is moving her stuff out, is already with another guy she just met Friday(I have verified this) and got an apartment today. Its just over she says! Wasn't happy living at OUR house. This all started Last Thurs when she stayed up all night on face book drinking (and no he is not from facebook) I mean till 11:30 the next morning. I called her on it and left around 3pm to clear my head. While she was passed out. She left and that was it.
It still hurts a second time. I was mad now I am kinda in shock that it went down soo fast. I know I'll be ok after she leaves with all her stuff)this weekend) but right now its tough. Thanks for listening...
Oh yeah, she pulled this once before when we lived apart. and yes found out tonite she met the guy months ago. same old BS, not happy, I did some things she did not like. wasn't paying attention to her complaints. I'm sorry but I had issues with her too but a marriage is a pact. She moved in knowing where we would live, that I have 2 great teenage sons. Funnt they are glad she is leaving. she promised me she would never pull that crap again!
I'm more in shock than anything. She said she got an apt today and is coming Sat with a moving truck. Pretty much said I can have most of her furniture as its a one bedroom. She better not be moving in with this guy as he lives near or in my neighborhood. She said this is really what she wants.
This sounds like maybe a woman of poor quality and character -- not someone temporarily fogged out by a momentary waywardness. Are you SURE you even want her back? What do you love about this woman?
Hey puppy Thanks, No I don't want her back. and the very things you said are true. Very poor character. Very hurtful and spiteful person. We have been together awhile and it does hurt to be screwed over again! And we were good friends. I guess thats the real kicker. We did everything together. Everyone knows us. Now suddenly its just me. Just like that. Time to focus on my son's and me!!
well she came by to pack up stuff today and was much more open about her doings. I'm sure just to keep me calm. Seems she may be having second thoughts about us but not moving out. Might be the old rope-a-dope..
She did talk to me Soleil. She was unhappy with me and my sons, needs to change things. She came over and packed more stuff and I helped her load her car. Said she did not sleep with the guy, oh yeah only in the same bed!!! Says she does not know waht she wants but signed a year lease across town. Out of guilt she is giving me about all her furniture as she has no room. What woman would give up a great house that we built with a huge closet for her clothes and comfort and security for that?? She even took her dog(pug) and a shi-tsu?? We found with her. Left me with my dog. No lawyer yet but I did some snooping and saw where she mentioned the D..
One week ago today it wass just a little fight. Now she is gone... Did not contact her since she left yesterday and not today. going dark until Sat when she comes to move her stuff. Any one have any idea how I handle that?
