should i send her a card? She has been in for a week with pneumonia but getting better. My son went to visit her. She and I are not really on speaking terms.
I am afraid we are gonna need a bit more background here dolphin... we have no idea what's going on with you .. at least as far as I know...
It looks like your H is cheating on you?
If MiL supports his affair instead of his marriage I would suggest you still extend some sympathy to MiL, but don't put yourself completley out there...
If MiL supports the marriage and is denouncing the affair then by all means support her through her illness...