I am Carlota, I would like to tell you that I got the bad news six months ago and my husbands goes back and forth changing his mind. I count four times and I feel like I am always in pain. Right now he said that he is in love with me and he served me with the papers three weeks ago, I want him in my life but I am so afraid that he is going to change his mind again. At the beginning he is very enthusiastic and later he is done and wants to terminate the relationship. I feel like I am stupid for saying yes so many times and getting slap on the face, and on the other hand I love this man and feel like anything can be work out in the marriage if both want to. I should be happy right now, but I am already feeling that he is distancing himself from me.
Please write me back, since I am a basket case, I feel like all the work on the marriage again is on me, even though he says that he wants it I don’t see him doing anything to benefit our relationship at all.
You nee dto give us some more data about your situation. How long have you been married, kids, affairs, ages?
Are you sure you should post here, in this forum? Newcomers get more traffic and you would get more responses...
Anyway, waiting for your post to understand a little more about you and see if any of us can help you out. (For starters quit doing what you have been doing and expecting a different result, that is the definition of insanity, you know? If 4 times whatyou guys have been doing hasnt worked, the 5th wont work either...) K
