I am Carlota, I would like to tell you that I got the bad news six months ago and my husbands goes back and forth changing his mind. I count four times and I feel like I am always in pain. Right now he said that he is in love with me and he served me with the papers three weeks ago, I want him in my life but I am so afraid that he is going to change his mind again. At the beginning he is very enthusiastic and later he is done and wants to terminate the relationship. I feel like I am stupid for saying yes so many times and getting slap on the face, and on the other hand I love this man and feel like anything can be work out in the marriage if both want to. I should be happy right now, but I am already feeling that he is distancing himself from me.
Please write me back, since I am a basket case, I feel like all the work on the marriage again is on me, even though he says that he wants it I don’t see him doing anything to benefit our relationship at all.
