Listen I'm no expert, what I learned that worked well in my situation I learned from the great people on this site.
One of the best things that I learned for myself was being able to finally admit that I didn't know everything, I didn't know how to fix this problem (and many other similar problems) and that continuing to make the same mistakes and continuing to be unwilling to try new and unconventional things was just going to get me the same results that I had been receiving.
Maybe not an "expert" but you are one heluva Natural at this. Someone said on that post of yours that they wish they could "Bottle" it up. It's impressive and inspiring at what you set out and suceeded to do with YOURSELF.
Coach and I use "Robx-isms" around the house often. "Crap behavior" is a favorite! Or "going Robx" on someone! Haha! I have appreciated and learned a lot from you, Rob. Thanks for teaching us! Greek \o/ \o/ \o/
LOL!
Love it, "crap behavior" is a favorite of mine too, as for "going Robx" on someone, that's just too open ended and could mean so many things.
Like I said before, you guys are just too good to me.
Can someone post the link to the LBS link I can't find it.
me 36 W 33 s-6 s-4 together since 1991 married Dec 2000 9years first affair before we where married. Second affair 1/2007 Gone Nov,2007 Back June 2008. ILYBNILY---i cannot believe you did this 7/22/2010
I read all 13 pages robox! Wow! You are a great divorce buster. Do you have anymore threads from that last post in 2009 telling how you and wife actually got back together? You are great!!!!
I read all 13 pages robox! Wow! You are a great divorce buster. Do you have anymore threads from that last post in 2009 telling how you and wife actually got back together? You are great!!!!
It's truly uplifting isn't it?
I'm hungover and having trouble focusing on reading it again today. LOL However, I'm glad you read it. It's truly inspiring.
Yes, Mr. Natural-Robx ....please share more of your wisdom.
I owe you a thank you too. I know that I became a little stand offish when you told me I was possibly being "Naive" but your words didn't go unnoticed.
As far as busting an affair...I think the only affair needed to be busted was me and my booze.
Regardless if there is another man, I can't change that. However, Sandi2 says it the best...YOU have to become someone she is attracted to.
When I ask myself am I attractive to me? I can honestly answer NO.
Then ask myself what will make me attractive to myself? Well there's a lot lol. Whether she comes back, that's not my problem.
I've never needed a hug in my life as much as need them now. So Big Hug back at ya