I deserve BETTER and someone who respects me. I'm sick of all this BS. Here is a link to my "sitch" which really isn't a sitch at all My so called sitch
He has changed every password on every acct. We have a joint cell phone acct and he has changed that info as well, including adding "extra" password security questions.
The only password he hasn't changed yet is his email, and I saw he started a new Skype acct username: itakeuout
Before he changed his FB password I saw he sent an email to a mutual female friend titled "sorry not to you"
she replied "Oh you had me worried there for a second"
he replied "I wrote the message and just sent it, then realized I sent it to you by accident but it was too late"
she didn't reply
Then he wrote "It was to a girl I met while I was working"
There was no original message, that he sent to her or "his new friend" So I don't know if it was a trick to see if I check his acct or not.
This weekend he was up here visiting the girls, of course he got super drunk, so I knew he wouldn't remember much, so I asked if he's seeing anyone, has met anyone, or has been in contact with anyone. He denied all of it. So I still don't have solid proof. But him changing all of his passwords and keeping his phone locked speaks volumes to me and I'm sick of trying. I'm sick of hoping and waiting. I'm just DONE. I'm giving up and considering this a loss for the team.
There are plenty of people who would know how to treat me and not see me as an enemy or a burden. The past 6 yrs of our marriage he's done nothing but kept me in the dark about his life, all secrets and lies that eventually come out to the open.
Today he told me never to contact him, until the day he dies. Unless it's about the kids or bills for the kids. I'm giving him his wish. He says I'm a nasty woman that will never change so F*ck him.
When a woman knows the real him and his ways she'll dump him on his ass and it'll be good for him because karma is a b*tch!
Last edited by 2gthrButApart; 08/02/1009:57 PM.
M:28 H:30 DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10 T-14 | M-8
10/08- Bomb 4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program 3/10- WH moved out. 7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug
I offer my empathy for you. If you want to hear from the other side I can offer that side. I was the one that cheated and lied
me 36 W 33 s-6 s-4 together since 1991 married Dec 2000 9years first affair before we where married. Second affair 1/2007 Gone Nov,2007 Back June 2008. ILYBNILY---i cannot believe you did this 7/22/2010
For myself is was finally realizing how selfish I had become espcially when the kids came. I found myself not being number 1 and it hurt my pride which just goes back to me feeling selfish. It took me 3 yrs of MC to understand that and legal trouble. I had tasted the other grass and found out it was bbetter in fact it was worse. Now after 3yrz I have a WAW I now realized we should be been doing the MC thing together. She had stop and I never pulled her back in. She tried just not thinking about it hoping it would go away it did not it festered. She started a new therapist in April, but it didn't do anything that I can tell. Our main problem lack of communication. Dont try and talk to him if he is drunk. You to sit down with him and tell him how you feel and let him open up. Could be he is just scared and trying to be mocho. Sorry if I rambled
me 36 W 33 s-6 s-4 together since 1991 married Dec 2000 9years first affair before we where married. Second affair 1/2007 Gone Nov,2007 Back June 2008. ILYBNILY---i cannot believe you did this 7/22/2010
I tried telling him how I feel on Sunday. He said "I don't care how you feel, there is NO US, there will never be an us, I Don't want you, I don't want to deal with you, and I don't care what you want, need or feel"
I've hit a brick wall. And I honestly think its too late and too much damage on both parts. I can have a nasty mouth when we argue bc I'm fed up! The other day he said I'm like a b*tch w/o a collar. He said I'm the type of woman guys want to kill.
He's too cold hearted. He only cares for himself at this point.
Our neighbor's 3 yr old said "My mommy likes flowers" I said "So do I! I buy them for myself b/c I like them so much" and my 7 yr old said "uh uh mammy, on your anniversary daddy will buy you some" and she made a heart with her fingers, he stared at her with such a glare.
But he thinks its all a trick to make him come back. I even suggested he move to our town, instead of him living 2 hrs away, just to be closer to the kids. He refused. There's no getting through to him.
M:28 H:30 DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10 T-14 | M-8
10/08- Bomb 4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program 3/10- WH moved out. 7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug
I feel your pain just know you are not alone. Work on yourself and be happy that's the best revenge.
me 36 W 33 s-6 s-4 together since 1991 married Dec 2000 9years first affair before we where married. Second affair 1/2007 Gone Nov,2007 Back June 2008. ILYBNILY---i cannot believe you did this 7/22/2010
