I haven't been on FB for about 4 months, I am GAL. Just curious what I can do to show the 180 since there is VERY LITTLE communication between us other than stuff regarding our son, which she initiates 4 of 5 contacts and generally angry over stupid stuff like where should I return the sheets you gave me for his bed.
Just put your FB on hold, you can suspend your account without deleting it. Do not go on there. You will find yourself checking in on every little thing she does on there and drive yourself crazy. Myself, I deleted and blocked my X so I could not even look her up on there after pics of OM started showing up while still married.
If you still want to use FB, simply change your settings to not show your marital status at all.
And yes, the problem with FB is that you will be tempted to check your partner's status etc all the time. I know....I still give in sometimes. But does it really matter that my WAW status says "married" but she lives in her own apartment? It might as well say she's a pink porcupine.
You could write the people who run facebook and ask them to include that as a relationship status: Single, In a Relationship, Married, It's complicated, and I am a Pink Porcupine.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
Doing the 180s with little contact is tough I'm sure but remember you are doing them for yourself. Whenever your W sees you and recognizes that you are happy in spite of her and that you are agreeing with her and not making waves, it will make her think whether she wants to or not. You can only control what you do, so do what makes you feel good about yourself and not what will make you crazy.
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~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.
Doing the 180s with little contact is tough I'm sure but remember you are doing them for yourself. Whenever your W sees you and recognizes that you are happy in spite of her and that you are agreeing with her and not making waves, it will make her think whether she wants to or not. You can only control what you do, so do what makes you feel good about yourself and not what will make you crazy.
I have come to the conclusion that if you are truly happy, what they think, feel or do seems less than relevant.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
