It's funny how God works...I needed a good laugh and have this mental picture of you typing your response...I am ROTFLMAO!
Good one...Sandra is a tough chick too...yet sweet.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Still having trouble staying asleep all night. Makes for a rough day at work. Had a long talk on the phone last night with the friend (who'd like benefits) and he always makes me laugh. Buried inside his conversation are little advertisements. Little subliminal msgs. like "vote T######"
No word from H. Not expecting any, either. He's still too mad and she's probably got him pretty worked up as to what a witch I am for not signing the papers. I'll let him cool down, and then give contact another shot. Can't lose Hope!
As Jesse Jackson would say....Keep hope alive! Hey...wait a minute didn't he have a child with an OM.. Okay maybe not a good quote to you LOL...ya get my drift though.
Re: little Friday...reach out to someone on the alt and they shoudl be able to give you the details if you care to join.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Nice to see you around dude. Damn, I remember my early days...the days when you and your friend down yonder would keep me going. Thanks dude!
Sorry for the hicjack Pun..
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
I knew what you meant, I just couldn't resist. lol
I'm really glad to see you're back on track.
This is an up and down deal for a while. Totally normal man. Most of the time when you get down your focus is either out of wack or you're working through an issue.
I'm really impressed by the way you recognize and handle it and the way you help others as well.
I emailed my H today. I sent three simple words. No not those three words. I simply said " I miss you". He replied "?" I emailed "I would like our marriage to work out". He replied, " If your sign those papers and have them noterized, I will agree to prolong the divorce until March as you wanted." I replied " That's just a postponement. I want to work on OUR marriage." He says " For right now I will agree to postpone our divorce until March if you sign. What happens between now and March is up in the air." I answered, " My capacity to forgive is as least as large as my capacity to love. I don't want to bargain. I want our relationship back." He responded," I already told you that this is the best I can do. I'm not bargaining at all, I'm just telling you what I'm also willing to do."
Now, for you that have been following my thread, you know that I have been agonizing over how to 'put it out there' that I still want our M. Having plainly stated same, he responds with 'a deal'. Excuse me? His last response was at 1:32 today. I have not answered. Does he really think I'm going to sell myself short that way. That I have no self-respect whatsoever?
To Respond or Not to Respond, that is the question. Whether to withstand the slings and arrows and tell him to go straight to Hell, or to remain meek and respondent? Or not to answer at all.
