What do you consider "contact"?

[EJohn]

I cannot think of any consequence besides going dark. At this point, that's all there is besides a divorce.

[EJohn]

She did send me a text later in the day saying she read the "psycho babble" that I gave her.

Also, the pics weren't off of facebook by the end of the day, so tomorrow when I get home, I'll block her. It doesn't seem like a consequence to me, but she lives on the damn website, so it might be to her.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

It's a start.

[Allen A]

How about exposure more... I can't offer examples because I don't know the details, but if the aunt and uncle are the excuse she's using tell that aunt and uncle that she had an affair with OM and you don't wnat her around that anymore

[EJohn]

Hmm, I think most everyone knows about it in town, but his family may not. I wouldn't be suprised if she all thought that she was divorced.

I'm going to let it sit for now. She was texting me like crazy this morning before work. I didn't respond until the after the 8th one. The first 7 were civil and she was going to write me an email because "her thought were coming together". Then the 8th it swung to "Changed my mind-im not writing u. Just isn't worth the stress". I reacted by saying "I didn't even do anything", (I meant I didn't do anything this morning to swing her mood). She goes into being exhausted of the whole situation. Which lead into her saying she was done at this point. I said so am I, to which she said "Call your lawyer".

Gonna let it sit. Normally I would be convincing her that we can fix it.

[Allen A]

EJ, your wife is testing you and baiting you.. don't talk to her.. The Silent Treatment can be very effective even with adults.