My old thread was locked and I'm not sure how to attach it to this. Any help would be appreciated.
Anyway, so much has happened since my last post. I've been trying to refi the home and it was declined so I'm working with another lender. I should hear today if I can purchase the home and move W out.
I got confirmation today that my W has ended EA with her boss, but moved on to a PA with a co-worker. I did something stupid and looked at her phone and saw several texts between the two. She has definitely kissed him and they are going out tomorrow night.
I guess it's something I was bound to deal with sooner or later.
M: 36 W: 29 S: 2.5 EA: 2/2010 OM1 D Bomb: 3/2010 PA: 6/2010 OM2 W moved out 8/2010 Loc: DE, USA
I'm not sure why I'm having such a hard time with this. I knew about her boss and I eventually came to grips with that. Just hearing that she has moved on to OM2 and actually seeing the texts between the two was hard.
I'm really praying that this refi goes through so she can get into her own place. I feel the worst for my son. I'm just so angry when she's around and I can't even focus on what's best for him.
I'm going to go out with some friends tonight, I'm hoping that will take my mind off things.
M: 36 W: 29 S: 2.5 EA: 2/2010 OM1 D Bomb: 3/2010 PA: 6/2010 OM2 W moved out 8/2010 Loc: DE, USA