My Husband will be here with in the hour to tell them he wants a divorce and us moving out. I can already feel myself getting emotional , how am I supposed to hold it together ?
Anything I should say to them ? He will be packing some stuff and leaving afterwards. My Daughters are 11 and 14.
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
Get out the tissues (for them). Be as strong as you possibly can in front of them. Let your H take the lead. First and foremost, be honest. They are old enough to hear the truth.
I would suggest getting some take out or calling for pizza after he's gone. Trust me, he'll be lightening quick. Then, the three of you can have a big group hug and a good cry. You can answer questions as best you can. From what I know of your sitch, there won't be much you can tell.