Do not stop DBing. Do it for yourself, not your W. Do it for the "other fish in the sea."
I intend to take what I have gained here for the person I meet that will treat me the way I want too. I do not want to have this experience define my future relationships or Marriage. If I find a good woman, I want to be a good man for her.
Do not give up on yourself and the efforts you have made here. It never stops.
Be positive and good to yourself.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097
I won't stop GAL or learning to be a better person, but I will stop trying to bust my divorce.
I do appreciate all of the advice and support this site provides. I am not sure how many of us would get through these things floundering by ourselves.
It is admirable for the pros to keep giving the same advice to a new batch of newbies each week. I would tire easily from have to re-speak my points. I don't know how they do it.
Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21 Bomb June 18, 2010 I filed D July 20, 2010 W filed counter suit Aug 2 Rings came off Aug 5, 2010
