did it because we should all of us try our best to help someone who says they are thinking of eating a gun...or 20 times as many sleeping pills...even if deep down we think it may be a cry of attention.
If your best is be quiet because you aren't sure if you're going to hurt or help...well, unless you're egging them on and helping them load the gun even a little note can help.
Do not be afraid to show some solidarity across the boards. : )
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
did it because we should all of us try our best to help someone who says they are thinking of eating a gun...or 20 times as many sleeping pills...even if deep down we think it may be a cry of attention.
If your best is be quiet because you aren't sure if you're going to hurt or help...well, unless you're egging them on and helping them load the gun even a little note can help.
Do not be afraid to show some solidarity across the boards. : )
didn't say it to praise you; some things are too fabulous to ignore.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
I wish you could show people a crystal effin ball just so they could see there really IS life after this.
Alas, no magic crystal balls to be had. But ... if you can get them to at least understand what they are feeling is a catalyst for REAL change, and if you can get them to remember when not know what the future holds was actually exciting....
Last edited by TimeHeals; 06/25/1006:03 PM.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
I can't count the times I've thought that, working for doctors, I could get hold of enough medicine to just 'go to sleep', but I wouldn't give the SOB the satisfaction. I know revenge is not our motive here, but truly, living well is the best.
Par4, you are probably hitting your 'rock bottom' and the only thing to do now is look up. If this situation you find your self in is not the ENTIRE reason you are considering this, then you need to reach out for help, which you have done here, in a sense. Reach out a bit farther, and if the help is not what you are seeking, find another helper.
