How do you stop yourself from questioning a cheating husband about where he has been, when you know he is out with her, and lying about it. I have not questioned in monthis - he lies anyway, so I figured why bother and it would just cause an argument.
After months of him sneaking out and lying about it - I can't take it anymore. I have done the whole confront with proof thing - months ago - not once has he admitted it. But, I know.
HOw do you keep it together - knowing I am trying to make this marraige work and waiting for this affair to blow over -
Me:36 H:38 Together: 20 years Married: 16 years Kids: 13 & 10 yr. old Discovered affair: 1/10 H denies affair. Refuses to save marraige. Divorce filed: December 2010
I'd suggest you go back and re-read people's prior posts to you, especially Allen's of June 3rd. I think you've already been given the best advice, but you just need to DO it.
