There are no consequences for her. Nothing. You're still there, still want her back, still waiting for something to change and go your way.
Nothing will change until you do something different.
Since you two are not married, I think it is fair to say that she has officially broken up with you. Face it. My advice to you is start right now living your life with that fact in mind - she has broken it off with you, she is with someone else, you are a single father with a whole wide world of opportunities in front of you. You even get to choose a new job/career path! Opportunities!!!!! Look forward b/c this chapter is closed.
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Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08