A couple of months ago my wife wanted me to research my sexuality thinking I may be gay since I lost my desire for her. Over the last three days, my wife's family has gotten involved in our problems (from comments my wife said to her sister-in-law). Since then the "family" has come forward and said enough is enough of her behavior, and that they are hoping changes will come real quick (they will do whatever needs to be done, if I say its o.k. - before their involvement I had to ask for it).
Of the many discussions, I mentioned the gay comment. They are not happy. Here are responses from various members of wife's family.
Mother In Law - That is a horrible comment and should never be tolerated.
Sister In Law - Extreme offense, and wife needs major help - really does not want relationship with her, but wants to see me and kids (and I am to ask for help from her with kids, place to go, meals, etc.)
Aunt-in-law (my father-in-laws, brother's wife)- Yeah right - what was she thinking.
Brother-in-law (her brother) she needs to be committed.
Uncle-in-law (Father-in-law's brother)cool, guys night out.
Father-in-law - she should be shot.
As you can see, her family is not happy with my wife's bahavior. Thank God I have a strong support system, they are going to do everything to keep us together. However we all realize that the situation is real bad.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
