I do know that he took money from our billing account because I can see it when I go to bank of america. He transferred it to one of his account that I don't have access to.
I apologize to everyone for being annoying and opening so many threads. I'm not myself right now.
It was $125. As I said, I think he went gambling. I can see where he is based on his cell phone and he was in a city near by where you gamble. I actually do have access to it if I log onto his BOA account. He planned a party several months ago and opened that so funds would be seperate.
I also have two accounts he cannot access because when I opened them he was not there and I just opened myself. There were for vacation funds. It's not like I cared if he had access it just never came up.
Why is this so hard? I'm kind of conflicted because I had a DV session today and she told me not to move money. Although, I guess thinking back she said something like "unless you think he would be vendictive". And I dont think he will be vendictive and I think he will replace the money. But I'm upset because I'm angry that he left me and he's just getting to borrow money for our accounts to go gambling.
You also said in one of your threads that your DB Coach was unaware of the missing money as you didn't think to tell her during your session. So, the coach did not have all the information.
Protect yourself first then worry about what the DB coach says if you think that is the route to go.
My H began taking out small amounts just like your H is. In four months he used 18K of joint funds on OW. Don't be foolish. He has CHOSEN to leave so the perk of "borrowing" from joint funds should no longer be an option available to him. No marriage, no perks!
