Whenever stbxw and I are in the same place among a crowed, I notice that she won't make eye contact with me. If we are alone face to face talking she will. She won't even hardly aknowledge me. Its like I don't even exist . It does bother me. What does this mean exactly? Does she hate me? Does she feel guilty? Does she care about me and does not want me to see it in her eyes? I am sure many of you have wondered the same thing and was just curious as to what your thoughts were.
Bomb 7/15/09 M46, W41 T 15YRS M 8YRS D20 D18 (stepdaughter) sep 8/16/09 papers filed 5/5/10 Divorce papers signed 8/18/10 Nov 18 officially divorced
My first thoughts would be that she thinks by looking at you eye to eye, you would see it as some sort of encouragement....and that is the last thing she wants to do....is to encourage you.
Don't you believe you would be reading every look, trying to figure out what she was thinking? If she smiled, you'd probably take that as a sign to pursue, if she didn't smile then you'd read something else into it.....so she figures the best way is not to look at you at all.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Whenever stbxw and I are in the same place among a crowed, I notice that she won't make eye contact with me. If we are alone face to face talking she will. She won't even hardly aknowledge me. Its like I don't even exist . It does bother me. What does this mean exactly? Does she hate me? Does she feel guilty? Does she care about me and does not want me to see it in her eyes? I am sure many of you have wondered the same thing and was just curious as to what your thoughts were.
I think it means you are still pursuing. I make eye contact with my ex. Mostly, when I make another woman laugh........
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I think it means you are still pursuing. I make eye contact with my ex. Mostly, when I make another woman laugh........
But R2C, if you look at your W when you are making OW laugh, then W will think you are just trying to make her jealous. When you look at your W, you've let her know that she is the one on your mind....not the OW you made laugh. It would be much more effective if you kept your eyes on the OW and not look over at your W.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
