Ok, I am kind of ranting here about those thinking of leaving because their spouses are workaholics. I am not talking about the ones who are jag-offs, liars, already cheating, etc.
I am talking about the ones who work hard, travel, get promoted, and so on.
In this economy? SHUT THE F UP!! Seriously, people never seem to know when to leave well enough alone.
If your H or W has a demanding career, chances are that you already knew this when you married, or encouraged it if they became successful later. So I think it's unfair to b!tch about it now instead of being supportive.
What eventually happens is that the spouse will retreat more into work, and be ripe for an A with someone else at work who "gets it."
beautiful home vs. loneliness jewerly vs. loneliness country club vs. loneliness pedicures vs. loneliness
Damn, we try so hard to please our spouses and starve ourselves so we dont look like we are going downhill; then... makes you wonder what the real issue is...