Ferg - I think part of the exhaustion is BECAUSE of the Red Bull w/vodka and/or Jager. Blech!
I'm off to UIC this am for an installation of something I sold... It feels like half of our company will be there, so, I guess I must go... LEAD! Ick! I only like being in charge of me. Period.
And, it's hotter than hel1 here.... 91 on tap today.
H was home over the weekend, handling the kids. They are safe and unscathed. We'll leave it at that. I'm annoyed. I let him know that this living situation, even interim, is not working for me. We need to get something set.
Everyone have a good day!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Following the leader, the leader, the leader, we're following the leader wherever 'she' may go! For those of you trying to place where those words are from....it's a song from Disney's Peter Pan.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
CBIH - I have to move because our house is too much for either of us to keep separately. Plus, it carries a bad vibe now. I'm looking at either renting a house, right by my boys school, or buying a condo. I found a condo that backs up to some nice soccer fields, and a great bike path. That's the only way a condo would work.
So, we will see what happens. It appears that my H is pulling all financial support from me. I have my tax and divorce sttorney's working on this diligently, so, I'm confident it won't last long.
Its the last week of school, so my boys are reslly excited for summer. I transitioned a lot of my prior workload, so soon I will be more focused, and less stressed about work.
Life is good!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Following along...sucks but you have to deal with what's in front of you. I knew we'd have to sell our house in K.C. when we were splitting up bc I could NOT keep up 10 acres by myself! Then I decided to move back 'home' so I would have family support. Even though Dan was hinting at reconciling then (wow 2 years ago!), I specifically chose and bought a house I liked that I knew I could maintain without him. That way, when he came and then left again, I wasn't screwed...
Enough about me! Hopefully you will find a new home that you and the boys will enjoy. Anywhere you are will be home to them, you know...
(((((Mindfull))))) One thing to remember.... whatever you decide right now doesn't have to be permanent. In fact, I think it would be better to keep your flexibility for a while, unless you are sure.
