How to handle direct lying LRT/MLC? (Cross post)

[amg2]

My H is in MLC. We've been separated 3 mos. Not much D talk lately, just me doing all contacting, initiating which I have stopped. I used some of Puppy's wording and texted him last week, after some big lying, telling him to "do what he feels he must, I will do the same. I hoped to avoid a D but my patience isn't w/o limits."

H texted today and says he owes me an apology. Says that he doesn't have any revelations but has been doing some reflecting and has a few things to say.

I'm pretty sure this is going to involve him continuing to lie about contact w/ someone else as he apologizes, talks. How do I handle this? No confrontation? Just listen and say ok?

Thanks

[brenalim]

Trust what he does... not what he says. You can believe nothing he says and only 50% of what he does. If he's truly "sorry," he'll have to show you.