Ok, not getting any responses but one over on SSM, so I'll throw it out over here too. I am going to take Oldpilot's suggestion & get my hormone levels checked, but here's the deal:
I have absolutely NO sex drive! I know one problem is my issue w/ my weight, but I just have no interest. This is how it was before the D bomb & I've made sure that we still have it regularly, but I would like to enjoy it too & I just don't. During the whole D sitch, I guess b/c of the drama or something, I couldn't get enough, but now it's back to how it was. I can just live w/o it & I don't really want it to be this way.
Any comments/suggestions/ideas, etc. etc.?
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
This is some advice from someone else that I read. I will put down for your benefit.
"I picked up some Goji Berries at my local asian store [or health food store]and thought I'd google to find out there benefits.Well in Asia there considered a strong sexual tonic.They increase testosterone in men and women as well as well being.I remember getting it a while back and having an increase in sexual desire [almost too much] I thought I just had a surge of estrogen but now when I think about it it's testosterone not estrogen that increases sex drive.Well I'll try again and see what happens.When I watch my husband and see how active he is I was wondering how I could increase my testosterone as I feel I am estrogen domanent.They also mentioned the importance of zinc as in pumpkin seeds and avocadoes for B6 which helps balance hormones."
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
H texted me yesterday "Have I told you today how very much I love you?"
Wow.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
