Mine's real cerebral. Yup, it's just my name. Creativity may not be my strong suit. But sarcasm is...if I could do it over it would be SassyPants but everyone knows me by BBJ now!
Well, my original name was dry_heat... being in the desert, where it's hot, and, well, dry!
A regular poster to my thread had taken to calling me handsome... one day I did something that amused a former moderator, and when I wasn't looking, I became Virtually_Handsome! I am not nearly that full of myself!
Contrary to what some might think - AHEM you know who you are - my username is not an hommage to menstruation . The "flow" part refers to an aspiration:
PS: Stupid Romeo has a contest going for a name change. Please chime into his thread if you have ideas
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
mine is my family pet name - my sister couldn't call me by my proper name when she was small so called me lalar - lal is used by all of my family and close friends and I use it for most user names the xx is simply two kisses (one for each of my children) sad I know....
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Choose Life Me: 45 Him: 44 S:11 D:8 Met in 1992 Married in 1995 Bomb drop September 30th 2009 Divorce final April 16th 2011 exH Marries OW June 17th 2011
I love the mountains, but I felt that when I signed up I was on a peak with two steep slopes in either direction. They both led to possibilities, but there'd be some fast falling first.
I guess I didn't expect to have to climb up and fall more than once, but isn't that the nature of learning...~
For me I was thinking of James Bond as a model. As a character, James Bond is calm, cool and collected in the face of danger and fear. When it comes to women, he knows how to turn on the charm, but is also detached and lets the women come to him. On top of all that, whenever he is in a seemingly impossible situation, he pulls out the necessary tools and smarts to get the job done. That's exactly what DB means to me.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.