Before I dare by another book that I won't read--and the Byron Katie stuff is GREAT--I actually finished one of hers--I need a sneak preview--
detachment: great reading someone else's process working and saving M: not so great
Not that I'm not thrilled to death for anyone on these boards who pulls it together and reconciles, but is there enough healing for a LBS in this book to bear the suffering of knowing how I didn't make it?
PEImom, I picked this book today . . . just getting started.
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010
avermont ... it's really a personal choice ... depends on how detached you are and your personal ability to focus on the authors process within herself ... no doubt about it, could be tough.
mrbt ... let me know what you think ...
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc