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Have a grasp...what's next? #1979401 04/11/10 11:54 AM
Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 336 L lost1234 OP Member
OP lost1234 Member L Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 336	so, i havent posted in a little while...working on my PMA and really to understand ALL i have read and ALL the advice i have so kindly been given... this whole matter is NOT EASY...no matter how you look at it and when it takes a hold so strongly, it isnt easy to break free from it. I MUST keep the PMA, be in touch with MYSELF! I have found me again!!!! yeah!!! Do I want my h to return? yes... will all of the begging. pleading reasoning and demanding work?? NO! for those who dont know my sitch...it has been a VERY LONG 8 months since he left. I have learned alot and i am still going... most important thing for I have learned to do...reguardless of the sitch( NOTE: abuse of any kind voids this...) Take care of yourself and your children...give your spouse the time and space they ask for... Last edited by lost1234; 04/11/10 11:56 AM. me 39 h 38 kids 9 and 6 h left 8/9/09 loving and devoted wife and mother still going...10 months later... http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1953221#Post1953221

Re: Have a grasp...what's next? lost1234 #1983309 04/16/10 08:55 AM
Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 1,605 West Coast M Mila Member
Mila Member M Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 1,605 West Coast	Quote: Take care of yourself and your children...give your spouse the time and space they ask for... Lost - You got it right. That's the way to look at it. M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO

Re: Have a grasp...what's next? Mila #1983372 04/16/10 01:27 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,262 Midwest C courageous wife Member
courageous wife Member C Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,262 Midwest	It does get easier with time! Sounds like you are doing good! M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing

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