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#1976392 04/07/10 04:47 AM
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Well, here I am. Did not want to be here but the place is kinda nice, I am buying drinks all week long until I get to know the folks--------Order up!


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Alittle early for drinks but... nice to meet you and welcome!


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Well Buffet, I followed you on your other thread, and while none of us ever wanted to be here, sometimes it happens. Glad you seem to be in good spirits. Cheers!


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V1olin no problem I will keep it open all week! and thanks Shocked I appreciate all of the support and feel that I will probably need some more I am sure. I will type details later of what happened, but as with anything in this M the XW could not just let it happen there had to be some final drama.......


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Hi, buffet,
My own experience has been one of trying my best - obsessively - for months - in Newcomers.
Unsuccessfully, unfortunately.
Surviving The Big D it has been, for me, a place of rest, of respite. Perhaps a place to pat myself on the back for a tremendous, almost valiant effort.
A place to heal. And to begin to move on.
I hope you find similar rest and solace here after a job well and noblty attempted.
Peace,


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With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
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Hey guys, I am trying to buy some drinks over here!


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Originally Posted By: Buffet
Hey guys, I am trying to buy some drinks over here!


Ok since no one else is asking I will have a White Russian, a Crown & Coke and a Peach Margarita (hey I can always save some for later!) grin

I need to go read your previous thread as I haven't yet...

But welcome to the Big D group....we are a fun bunch! None of us wanted to be here, but if I had to get here I am glad I was traveling the road with this group...

I agree with Gardener, this is kind of the rest/regroup forum for those of us who battled our best and did not emerge victorious in our Ms, but who gave it our all and should not be ashamed of our efforts...


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Man is it cold!! Hot chocolate please as it is early and I need to go to work.

Sorry you find yourself here but welcome. We may not be as dramatic as we used to be but we still find issues now and then. smile

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If you're insisting on buying, I'm not too picky. So what are we drinking? smile


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BBJ---served with a to go box (cant be responsible for over-serving on my first day on the job!)

Kat--coming right up

Shocked---we can mix up anything but a nice whiskey on the rocks for me sounds good!


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