I apologize if this is a silly question. I understand there are varying degrees of "dimness" and "darkness". I see these terms used a lot here, but what are the guidelines? Initiate no contact? Don't respond to their contact?
I think I need a better understanding of how this works. Thanks in advance for any info.
M--14 years T--20 years, HS sweethearts dday #1--2002 EA dday #2--2005 bar sl*t dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years
Initiate no contact and do not respond immediately to any attempts at contact, and then only for important business (financial, legal, or child-related).
If they text or email you, don't respond right away. If they call you, let it go to voice mail. Respond when you have time; ideally, you will have other things you are doing with your time and thus have good reasons not to contact them. ("I'm sorry I didn't call back, but I was out.")
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
