Eric: thank you for reminding me that it is his problem and not mine. I just feel so bad for him. I will try to do the Alt thing later today if I have time.
OP: Thank you for the links to the resources. I will read them and I do believe he has been in depression for awhile.
Cynmad - friend "ericm sant". You will see a picture of me and my D as my profile picture.
BTW - I thought lost analogy was great. Funny but spot on.
Keep working on yourself - let go and let God you are doing good. Keep posting and let us know how you are doing.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Cynmad I wish I didn`t feel your pain, but I do. You sure do have an H in MLC, and he`s made a mess of things. His journey will last a long time so hang on. I miss my friend as well. My H is no longer my friend in his mind, and I have to remember that. Celestial
Yes, we talk, but it`s not the same, right now my biggest problem is trying to get along since I filed. I`m prepared for our D, but H has never been away from me before. I wonder how it`s going to be once we`re D.
So have you given some thought on... What things you want to do for YOU.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans