This message is for anyone who is lurking on these boards but not posting.

Put up a post. Anything. Just say hi if that's all you can do.

I lurked for a few months. I read peoples information, their struggles, the great advice they were given by so many people here but...

The real changes didn't start happening until I finally posted. There is a big difference in reading about other people's sitch and watching the feedback and getting personalized feedback for your unique situation.

When you post you have more invested in this place and believe me, it made all the difference in the world for me.

Another great benefit you'll get is there will be 'regulars' who will watch your thread and give you feedback. You'll get to know these people, and although it's an online forum, you'll build some very tight and special relationships with them.

I wish I had started posting sooner. I imagine it would have made a big difference for me.

So Please,

Post.


MySitch
Me-47
STBXW-41
D-5
S-8
ILYBNILWY-01/08
Want a D- 01/09
Physical Sep-01/10
D filed-06/10
Got 50% custody=09/11
Ride that wave!