I posted this on the newcomers thread too. Can anyone point me to advice for a person going through a MLC? Or is this even possible since their heads aren't on straight?
Thanks
M--14 years T--20 years, HS sweethearts dday #1--2002 EA dday #2--2005 bar sl*t dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years
yikes my first reaction is similar to those in an A...they do not see their sitch as an MLC just as those in an A believe their sitch is NOT just an addictive relationship to escape...they think it is real.
Sorry I can't help! Just being honest that I don't think it would do good...
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
www.midlifecrisisadvocate.com is a fantastic website all about midlife crisis.You will see various ref to it on this site.Roller coaster rider is on the forum and she does a lot of great work in hosting this site.You will find the experience most people go through is broadly similiar.My husband is definitely going through a MLC and I believe it is very real. Good luck hope it helps
ME 44 H 45 D 14 D 20 M 22 YEARS TOGETHER 28YEARS Bomb Drop 14th July 09 Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09) MLC 3years
Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith
The Mid Life Crisis forum has a ton of helpful resources. The people there are experiencing it all first hand and can help. The following post should be helpful:
