Hi CW Just wanted to stop by, I`ve been working alot lately, so haven`t been on much. You seem to be in good spirits, don`t worry about what H is doing, just enjoy the peace when you find it.
On my way to work today, I saw lots of campers etc. and admit I did get sad thinking about that since it is something we did a lot as a family...trying to not let it get to me and vowing that next year at this time...I will be a happier person, with or without H.
Got something in the mail today about child support. It is less than what H has been giving me so I guess I should be happy...still scared about the future...the kids and I are struggling right now and if we get less...moving from this house is a definite....not sure I can count on H for anything more.
On a different note...
Heard a story today...a local couple, she owned a hair salon, were in a motorcycle accident a couple of years ago and she was killed. Her H took over the business side of the salon but is now wanting to sell it. Several of the stylists who I worked with left where I work to go there..no notice, anything. So now, their jobs are up in the air...
The lady that was killed, was the OW and the marriage broke up because of her and they got married.
So, now, the guy is dating his ex wife and wants to sell the salon...anyone believe in karma?
In no way am I saying she deserved to be killed in a motorcycle accident because she didn't...just telling the story.
Everyone have a wonderful and safe weekend!!!
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Me too Mila...that would be awful. Was thinking that it is karma for the girls that left our shop too!
I am just thinking out loud and if anyone has any comments, I would be happy to hear them.
As you know, my H filed for a D beginning of March. I filed a counter one almost 5 weeks ago and have not heard anything back. My L called this morning just to check on me and make sure that she is doing what I want in not pushing it through. I asked her about not hearing back from H on it and she said that he does not have to respond.
She asked if he has talked with me or seen the kids or given me any impression that he is tiring of the OW and I said no..hasn't been with kids in a month and does not call me...
I told her that he is the one that wants this so we will wait until he does something. The longer it takes, the longer I will have health ins etc.
So, as long as we are doing ok financially, I think this is the right thing to do...
There have been days where I just wish it was over and done but am willing to play the waiting game for awhile longer!
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Me too Mila...that would be awful. Was thinking that it is karma for the girls that left our shop too!
I am just thinking out loud and if anyone has any comments, I would be happy to hear them.
I love stories of the karma bus coming to town. All too often, we are not around to see it! I started a grateful list so I could see the good Karma coming into my life, too! I have been shown who and what really matters in my life. I had kinda lost perspective on that. Maybe I'll start posting it on my thread...
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She asked if he has talked with me or seen the kids or given me any impression that he is tiring of the OW and I said no..hasn't been with kids in a month and does not call me...
Amazing, isn't it?!
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So, as long as we are doing ok financially, I think this is the right thing to do...
There have been days where I just wish it was over and done but am willing to play the waiting game for awhile longer!
This is soooo where I am at. Right now, my H is paying the bills, (I don't know how cuz he has trashed the businesses) and thankfully I am not stressed about that. I am concerned about his judgment in managing the money in his current state! Anyways...my life will not be too much different than it is now, the future path will be more certain, however!
Seeing Shrek today. Saw Sex yesterday....watch out for carrie's MLC and some cheating issues....Mostly fluffy and Hollywood....
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"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
WN...I would definitely post all the good karma on your thread!
I was just out cleaning the garage and notice that our tent is gone...explains why H is too busy this weekend to spend time with his kids. I love how everything that was "ours" is now "his". That b-turd is sharing OUR tent with HER...I really hate him right now. Hope they both think of me while they are in there!!!! I also hope they are hot and have lots of mosquito bites!
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D11 just told me that her and her brother feel like their Dad doesn't care about them anymore...breaks my heart. I told her that "Dad still loves you but he is being very selfish right now". I hope that was ok to say...I could think of a lot worse things!!!!
Headed to nieces sb game and then to SIL's for grilling out...she said she tried calling H to tell him about a family friend that recently passed away...no answer, she left a message, no returned call...SS28 tried calling H this morning to ask him something..same thing...
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